Looking for a relgion that fits vs. looking for truth

topic posted Wed, July 18, 2007 - 1:14 PM by  Hen
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I'm curious about other people's viewpoints on this. I'm not directing this at Anjali, who's trying to head out of here, but s/he brought up this dichotomy which I find interesting, between looking for a religion that fits, versus looking for the truth.

In a way, I feel like these are completely intertwined. How could I find a religion which seems like it is the truth, yet does not fit me? And how could I find a religion which fits me, yet seems untrue? Logically or intellectually, it seems impossible.

On the other hand, it makes on some emotional or spiritual level to experience this dichotomy. I identify as a Jew, having been raised Jewish and had a Bat Mitzvah, yet I disagree strongly with certain scriptures. The Baha'i Faith appeals to me immensely, and resonates with me spiritually, yet again, some parts of it seem "untrue" or something I can't agree with.

In the end, as I said in the other thread, I feel like I'm not likely to find any religion of any size which conforms 100% to my personal spiritual beliefs, other than a religion which relies completely on individual discovery (UU, Theraveda Buddhism). One of the reasons the Baha'i Faith appeals to me is that it conforms to my spiritual beliefs on a level so much higher than I ever expected to encounter in a popular religion, it shocks me. If I look at any religion, including my own, I try to get to know it well and really tear it apart, so I feel like I'll always encounter these issues.

I began thinking about these issues when I played with this thing on selectsmart.com called the religion selector. My own identified religion never comes up in the results higher than 3rd. I find this to be rather common when I see other people's results - other religions are closer to the person's individual beliefs than the one they practice or were raised in. I don't know anyone of the Baha'i Faith who's taken this test, so if anyone is interested, here's a link. Sadly, Sufism and I think Zoroastrianism are missing from the possible results, although they got Jainism in there:

www.selectsmart.com/RELIGION/

How you rank the importance of your choices affects the outcome quite a bit, by the way.

Also, I'm very interested in anyone's thoughts on this, in general.


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  • Oops, and I should share my own results from the selector in the spirit of disclosure. :)

    1. UU
    2. Liberal Quaker
    3. Reform Judaism (I was raised Conservative but I'll count it as a hit, haha)
    4. Baha'i (actually more appealing than the top 2)
    5. Neopagan (Not for me, but then it's #5)
  • I copied it just to show it was "for real"

    Your Results:

    1. Bahai (100%)
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    2. Reform Judaism (97%)
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    3. Liberal Quakers (91%)
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    4. Unitarian Universalism (90%)
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    5. Sikhism (87%)
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    6. Jainism (85%)
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    7. Neo-Pagan (78%)
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    8. Orthodox Judaism (78%)
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    9. New Age (74%)
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    10. Islam (71%)
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    11. Mahayana Buddhism (71%)
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    12. Hinduism (66%)
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    13. Mainline - Liberal Christian Protestants (64%)
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    14. New Thought (56%)
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    15. Secular Humanism (54%)
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    16. Theravada Buddhism (52%)
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    17. Scientology (52%)
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    18. Taoism (48%)
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    19. Orthodox Quaker (45%)
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    20. Christian Science (Church of Christ, Scientist) (41%)
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    21. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (40%)
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    22. Jehovah's Witness (29%)
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    23. Non-theist (28%)
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    24. Mainline - Conservative Christian Protestant (26%)
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    25. Seventh Day Adventist (22%)
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    27. Roman Catholic (21%)
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    Usually these type of tests put me as matching Baha'i within the top three to five. They have such preconceived ideas of how the answers should be, without knowing that so often it is intent of the heart that truly matters and most often the "true" answer isn't given as an option.

    I would encourage anyone thinking of joining the Faith to truly study the life of Baha'u'llah. Read the series by Adib Taherzadeh, The Revelation of Baha'u'llah. It is four books, approx. 600 ages each (maybe, ish). However, if you have ever read an epic series, that should not faze you in the least. If you have never read an epic, you are in for a treat. The message doesn't matter if you do not love the "messenger". Don't worry about getting the names down perfectly, its like to-may-toe and to-mah-toe, whoever you ask says it slightly different anyhow. :)

    Each time I read this series I fall in love all over again. I would give my life for Him in a heart beat. He doesn't ask it though, He asks we live the life, not die for it! Natch, the hard junk!

    Also, try to go to a LARGE conference and/or retreat hosted by Baha'is. You will meet such a diverse group of people it will be unbelievable. A person dressed to the nines sitting next to a young person with purple hair, tattoos and multiple piercings. Listen to the music of Baha'i Artists at Divine Notes.com and see the diversity come alive there.

    NOTHING is perfect, the plan for perfection is there, however. And learning how to see the potential in everyone and everything is exhilarating. People would write to Baha'u'llah's son, 'Abdu'l-Baha with their plans for teaching or a social and economic development, describing everything down to the last detail. Sometimes 'Abdu'l-Baha's replies would be very short, no matter how long the letter. He only complimented and encouraged the positive and that which should be developed. They would write again, thinking he had missed there point, and he would reply as before, commenting on the avenues they should take and explore and spend time developing. After the third or fourth letter they would get the idea. His job was to encourage, cheer on, commend. It would take very serious misdeeds to get a response from him that did not dwell on the positive aspects of a venture. When the very first National Spiritual Assembly of the North American continent was formed the men did not let the women vote, as the year was around 1907ish, before women had the vote in the government. 'Abdu'l-Baha immediately dissolved the Assembly and called for a new election, with women not only voting but to be considered eligible to sit on the National Assembly.

    Keep searching until your HEART says this is it. Then, remember that your heart and soul will be tested. Why? So you will know with absolute certainty the truth of your own self.

    One of my favorite Hidden Words:
    O SON OF SPIRIT!
    I created thee rich, why dost thou bring thyself down to poverty? Noble I made thee, wherewith dost thou abase thyself? Out of the essence of knowledge I gave thee being, why seekest thou enlightenment from anyone beside Me? Out of the clay of love I molded thee, how dost thou busy thyself with another? Turn thy sight unto thyself, that thou mayest find Me standing within thee, mighty, powerful and self-subsisting. (Baha'u'llah, The Arabic Hidden Words)
    • Twowings, thanks for the tip on the gathering and the book. I suspect I'd enjoy both immensely. There are other people who resonate with religions I don't at all, e.g. religions which seem to me to worship creations over creator. Perhaps these religions are "true" for them and not for me, whether that's a consequence of my religious training or not.

      Stephanie, Jainism is a rather interesting, very old religion, which I only discovered because of that selector. It has some parallels with Bahai Faith. All souls are considered equal, of equal potential to be enlightened, and in some sects, the sexes are considered equal. They value education very highly and value all life, human and non. They respect other faiths to the point of assisting worship and have a belief similar to progressive revelation. They don't believe in a God entity, though.
  • 1. Hinduism (100%)
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    2. Unitarian Universalism (91%)
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    3. Jainism (91%)
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    4. Bahai (88%)
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    5. Liberal Quakers (86%)
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    6. Mahayana Buddhism (86%)
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    7. Sikhism (85%)
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    8. Mainline - Liberal Christian Protestants (78%)
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    9. Theravada Buddhism (77%)
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    10. Reform Judaism (71%)
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    11. Neo-Pagan (70%)
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    12. Orthodox Judaism (66%)
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    13. New Thought (65%)
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    14. Orthodox Quaker (64%)
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    15. New Age (63%)
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    16. Scientology (60%)
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    17. Islam (59%)
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    18. Taoism (58%)
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    19. Christian Science (Church of Christ, Scientist) (57%)
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    20. Eastern Orthodox (52%)
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    21. Roman Catholic (52%)
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    22. Seventh Day Adventist (52%)
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    23. Secular Humanism (46%)
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    24. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (43%)
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    25. Jehovah's Witness (43%)
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    26. Mainline - Conservative Christian Protestant (43%)
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    27. Non-theist (27%)
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    Funny... I know very little about Hinduism, and I consider myself Baha'i. My usual result for these types of tests is Unitarian Universalism.

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